Pre-marital relationship between boys and girls as a cultural challenge

Behnaz Ertezaie

Department of Psychology, Faculty of Psychology and Educational Sciences,

Isfahan University, Isfahan, Iran

Abstract

Relationships between boys and girls before marriage has always been an important topic, and yet it has been obscured with suspicion and anxiety.On the other hand, instinctive stresses and tensions cause adolescents to tend to the opposite  and on the other hand, social, cultural and moral considerations have served as obstacles to them. These contradictory and contradictory modes in society have always been problematic for teenagers and youth, as well as parents and educators, and have created an uncertainty and confusion about how to cope with this problem. It seems That the issue of the relationship between the girl and the boy and its increasing expansion has become an issue of personal, family and social constraints. This phenomenon, due to its harmful and consequential consequences, needs to know the factors creating, maintaining, and controlling it, so that solutions can be found to suit the individual, the family and the community. Therefore, to solve a problem such as Unhealthy relationships between girls and boys. As a cultural challenge, it is necessary to pay special attention to different strategies at different levels, which are discussed in this article.

Key words: Relationship, Opposition, Challenge, Culture.